A few months before the divorce, you need to calculate all the expenses. How much money is spent on utilities, on your expenses, on food and on a child? During the miscalculation, you will understand what you can refuse after the divorce, and what not.
Take care of finances
If you earn a little, you need to look for additional income, being married. The same situation, if you do not work at all, you need to find a job. Before submitting your application, you must set aside a “safety cushion” - a certain amount of money that can help you out the first time.
Take care of your place of residence
If you live in your own apartment, then there should be no problems. If your husband’s apartment or your joint property, then you need to take care of your place of residence: find out how much it costs to rent an apartment and save money on it.
Relatives and friends react differently to divorce news. They may not support you and even condemn your decision. In this case, it is better to consult a psychologist. He will mentally prepare you for separation and will support you during the online divorce process.
Prepare the children
It seems to you that the children are not aware of anything. It is important not to interfere with the child in the divorce process. Support the children and envelop them with maximum care, but in no case spare them. Prepare children morally for divorce.
Think about the organization of life
It is important to understand what you will do if, for example, a child falls ill? Who can insure you with work? Who will help you if a faucet flows? Who will take you with the child to the doctor? Consider as much as possible all the details of your future life.
Find a lawyer
If you have children and joint property, it is best to consult with a lawyer about this. The lawyer will also help to correctly file a divorce statement.
Breaking up a relationship is always unpleasant, even if you and your husband disagree peacefully. But it’s easier to do this when you know where you will go and for what you will provide children.